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When it comes to erotic play there are a lot of toys and fetishes out there to satisfy just about any taste. From penis pumps and nipple clamps to S&M aids and 50 Shades of Grey toy kits, Sex Supply Shop has it all to help you enact your deepest desires. One seldom explored, but much-desired topic is anal massage. While this may seem like a nice relaxing deep tissue massage, it is actually something much more stimulating.
If you have heard your friends prostate massage stories and wondered if mind-blowing ejaculations and toe-curling orgasms were possible, know this, the stories are true. Men have been using prostate massage toys as long as sex toys have existed. Even before there were toys specifically for prostate stimulation, men have been getting off with manual prostate play.
Before we get into the specifics of erotic prostate massage, it is important to understand what prostate massage actually is and how it stimulates the body. A massage is the physical manipulation of the muscles to achieve a specific result. Usually, the goal is to soothe sore muscles, stimulate blood flow, or to help restore function to the target area. Prostate massage therapy follows along those same lines.
Unlike a normal massage, prostate massage is typically performed by a doctor or other licensed health care professional. The procedure was created to help men release fluid from clogged or sluggish prostate ducts. Japanese prostate massage performs the same function and is also intended to help promote sexual health and wellness in the patient. Many people assume that Asian prostate massage will help prevent prostate cancer, and to date, there is no evidence that this is true. Medical prostate massage is an effective way to treat chronic prostatitis and diagnose other health conditions of the prostate.
The prostate is a gland in the body that is situated just under the bladder. It is about the size of a golf ball and can be located in the area between the anus and the penis base. The prostate massage therapy technique is a specific way to reach the area and help stimulate the prostate to release fluids and work more efficiently. Most medical professionals who offer prostate massage therapy prostatitis will use a prostate massage device to achieve maximum therapeutic stimulation. Because the gland is vital to the male reproductive system, it is important that it works efficiently to ensure proper sperm function.
Now, that you understand the medical uses of prostate stimulation, we can dive into gay prostate massage and other erotic uses for p-spot stimulation.
Adding a prostate massage toy to your bedroom adventures is a great way to take your sex play to the next level. Not only will it help create more intimacy between you and your partner, but once they experience prostate massage sex for the first time, they will be hooked. Massaging the prostate as part of foreplay or even during intercourse can bring the nerve endings alive and trigger a much stronger orgasm.
Nothing quite replicates the strength and feeling of having prostate massage cum shoot out of a well-loved cock. Most couples know that sexual massage can make the actual sexual experience more intense, but when it comes to prostate massage, its truly on a whole new level. Gentle stimulation in a rhythmic fashion paired with soothing words of lust and love can produce a powerful prostate massage cumshot that can last as long as 65 seconds. While this may not seem like a long time, keep in mind that the average ejaculation lasts between 25 and 40 seconds, not counting the aftershocks of course. This is not the time it takes to achieve an orgasm, but rather the actual time spent spilling seed in your sexual partner.
The next time you want to spice things up in the bedroom, bring up p-spot stimulation with your partner. He may seem hesitant at first if he has never tried anal play, but once you start hitting his prostate while you suck him off, he will never want to go back to simple sex play.
If you are interested in spicing things up with your partner by trying something new, real massage sex is the way to go. That’s right, I am talking about getting intimate and tickling the best kept erotic secret around, the P-spot. Until recently, male milking by stimulating the prostate was assumed to only be for homosexual couples and for men who were very much into strange fetishes. Thankfully, most men understand that a little bit of anal play for stimulation is not the same as real anal sex. If you are interested in exploring that forbidden pleasure with your partner, my guide will give you the basics to help you trigger a superhuman orgasm though erotic prostate massage.
Before you start, make sure that you have all of your prostate massage instruments nearby. This will mainly consist of a good lube such as Endless Love Anal Relaxing Silicone Lube, along with what I consider the best prostate massage device on the market, the Hugo Black Prostate Massager. If this is the first time, other elements to set the mood can help him relax and enjoy the experience even more. This can be as simple as a glass of wine, or as elaborate as candles, mood music, and visual entertainment for additional stimulation.
It is also important to make sure he is relaxed before you put your prostate massage tools to work. Tension or anxiety can be held in the sphincter and that is the last place you want to use force. Anal play can be messy for beginners, but exercising proper hygiene in advance can cut down on any embarrassing accidents. You can use gloves if you feel more comfortable and make sure to lay down a dark towel or use dark sheets as a precaution.
The next step in the prostate massage instruction session is to have your man lay on his back with his knees up and spread apart. Incorporate some sensual play by touching him all over, licking his sensitive areas, or even by teasing him with your own body. Make a point to stimulate his cock as you start to play with his anus with your fingers. This will help loosen him up and prepare him for stimulation. Ask your man if he is ready to begin, they apply a generous amount of Adam & Eve Forbidden Anal lube, or any other brand that you prefer.
Now we are ready for massage anal play. As you continue stimulating his cock, gently insert a finger into his as up to the first knuckle, go slow and thrust in and out to allow his body to adjust to the sensation. As he is ready to move on, push your finger deeper while continuing gently with a come hither motion. Move your finger around until you locate a walnut-sized node along the anterior wall. Chances are your partner will sigh out in intense pleasure since the feeling is similar to hitting the g-spot.
With gentle stimulation to the penis and the prostate, his orgasm will begin to build steadily and quickly. Though you can perform a prostate massage with your finger, for cum milking, a sex toy may be more effective. I suggest the Anal Fantasy Beginners Prostate stimulator for those who are still new to anal play. If your partner is more comfortable with butt theatrics, the Zero Tolerance The Emperor prostate toy can help him squirt and buck like it’s going out of style.
Now that you know how to perform an erotic prostate massage for your partner, or even on yourself, you may be interested in adding a few sex toys to your collection. There are a lot of prostate toys to choose from, mainly they are sorted according to the level of skill, size, and overall comfort level. For men who are just getting into prostate stimulation, a simple prostate toy like the Temptasia Bellatrix Plum Purple G-Spot or Prostate Massager is a great place to start. The anus takes some time to get used to things going in and out, so always start off small for the most pleasurable experience.
For men who are comfortable with prostate massage and no longer have to worry about anal pain, it can be fun to upgrade to a prostate massage vibrator. These serve the same purpose as a regular prostate stimulator, but with an extra bit of erotic fun. One of my favorite prostate vibrator toys is the Renegade Orbit Blue Prostate Massager. Not only does it vibrate, but it also keeps the scrotum warm and is connected to a remote so I can pleasure my partner’s prostate while he is pleasuring me with his fat cock.
Nothing beats a bit of wife massage sex than perhaps dual please massage sex. Couples can add flavor and erotic delights to their bedroom play with exciting p spot stimulation mixed into their regular activities. I have a few tips that I have found helpful when for couples who want to engage in various levels of anal play.
One of my most important tips is to invest in the best prostate toys within your budget. A quality prostate stimulator will help your partner boost their sexual performance while also providing you with erotic pleasure. You can buy remote-controlled p-spot stimulators and also remote controlled panty vibes and swap controls. Talk dirty while you vibrate each other to the heavens before hopping bed and banging out your arousal.
Another tip I can offer is to pair anal stimulation with a cock ring. My partner loves to wear the Anal Fantasy Assgasm when we are looking for a wild night. Not only does the ring keep him harder longer, but the dual prostate stimulation increases the intensity of his physical pleasure while we have sex.
If you plan to engage in prostate massage with vibrator, it is even more important to use the proper type of lubrication. Any anal play should be paired with a generous amount of lubrication, but prostate play with a vibe needs it even more. If you plan to use your fingers for prostate massage, you can use a slick lube like Body Action Anal Relaxer Silicone Lube or JO Anal Premium Personal Lubricant Warming lube. Both will help ease the path to the p-spot and have him screaming like a madman when he erupts all over your hands or face.
For those who plan to engage in Chinese prostate massage using an erotic sex toy, it is important to choose a lube that works with the material of the toy. Silicone-based toys should be paired with water-based lubricants such as Ona Zee's Rear Entry lube or Zero Tolerance Toys Anal Lube. Metal or glass p-spot toys can be paired with any type of lube on. Basically, the same rules for a lube that you would follow for dildos and condoms are the ones you should follow with prostate massage toys.
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