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Kink Bind & Tie Hemp Bondage Rope 50 Feet from Doc Johnson Novelties. Rope is the original bondage and restraint tool, and finding the right rope for the job is essential for safe, pleasurable play. Doc Johnson created the Kink Hogtied Bind & Tie Hemp Bondage Rope 50 feet of strong, natural hemp rope in about a quarter of an inch width ideal for most types of rigging to meet your every need. The flexible hemp fibers bend with the body and slide smoothly across skin for the optimal comfort and safety of the bound partner, and offer a moderate amount of friction to keep your knots firm yet easy to undo. The versatility, strength, and smooth whipped ends of this rope make it perfect for full restraint, Shibari, and many other rope play styles. Kink by Doc Johnson is an exciting collaboration with Kink dot com to create a collection of high quality authentic fetish items suitable for long term practitioners and new initiates alike. Features expertly crafted 100% natural Hemp rope. Suitable for Shibari and other rope play. Soft, sturdy .23 inch or 6mm e weave. Ready to use. Reinforced whipped ends prevent unraveling. Premium three strand twisted design.
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Kink from Doc Johnson The Stinger Electro Play Wand. Motivation comes in many forms. This cattle prod style electro play wand creates different sensations specific to the area it is applied with a light zap perfect for training or teasing. Tickling, tingling, and a moderate sting are all within the realm of possibility with the Stinger. The Stinger's handle features a non-slip, non-conductive rubber grip, and a safe but powerful current runs between two prongs at end of the contrasting red shaft. Product features: moderate sting. Simple push button operation. Creates mildly painful or tickling sensations. Loud crackling sound and visible spark. Stimulates multiple senses. Non conductive rubber grip. Leaves no visible effects. Suitable for new and experienced E-Stim players. Safe, sane, and consensual SSC is one of the values surrounding ethically acceptable behavior in BDSM, kink, and alternative sexuality communities. Safe means that the risk of activities should be understood by all participants, taking all precautions to prevent accidents or injury. Sane is to undertake activities in a sensible and sane state of mind, understanding the difference between fantasy and reality. Consensual means that all parties have freely and fully consented to the activity and were in a sound state of mind. Specifications: color Black, Red. UPC Code 782421059750. Total length 15 inches, width, diameter 1.5 inches. Wand requires 2 AA batteries. Functions electronic stimulation. Material ABS plastic. Wireless operation. Kink by Doc Johnson is an exciting collaboration with Kink.com to create a collection of high quality authentic fetish items suitable for long-term practitioners and new initiates alike.
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Kink Spike Solid Metal Pinwheel 5 Wheels. The Spike 5 Wheel Pinwheel from Doc Johnson's Kink collaboration ideal for teasing and tormenting a submissive with unique sensory delights, or as the prologue to a medical fetish play scene. Spike produces a variety of tantalizing sensations and effects depending on the pressure applied; lightly roll the wheel across the skin for a light tickling touch, or press harder to mark or pierce the skin with its sharp prickly points. Kink by Doc Johnson is an exciting collaboration with Kink.com to create a collection of high quality authentic fetish items suitable for long term practitioners and new initiates alike. Product features: stimulating pinwheel with sharp rollers. Perfect for medical play, fetish play or general sensation play. Individual wheel tracks prevent pinching. User controls pressure and effects. Black chrome finish metal. Extra long handle suits every user. Specifications: Color Gun Metal. UPC Code 782421059798. Total length 7 inches, width, diameter 1.5 inches. Material Zinc Alloy. Please note one wheel only. Shown with 2 for side details.
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Japanese Style Bondage 100% Cotton Wrist or Ankle Cuffs Red from Doc Johnson. Rope is the original bondage and restraint tool and finding the right rope for the job is essential for safe, pleasurable play. Crafted from our 100% cotton Japanese Style Bondage ropes, these soft cuffs are a perfect introduction to rope play for beginners and a fast track to bondage play anytime, anywhere for more experienced users. The simple slip ring design requires no rigging or knotting experience, while the long loop allows a variety of uses and customization. The soft cotton fibers bend and stretch with the body and slide smoothly across skin for the wearer's optimal comfort and safety. Cuffs features: 100% Cotton. Simple slip ring design restrains without knots. Quick, easy use and removal. Hardware swivels for safe, comfortable wear. Suitable for wrist or ankle restraint. Total length 63 inches.
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Japanese Style Bondage Silicone Cuffs Small Black from Doc Johnson Novelties. For both beginners and restraint enthusiasts, these premium silicone cuffs feature a single piece molded design with no metal hardware to break, snag apparel, or irritate skin. Perfect for light bondage play, these firm yet flexible wrist cuffs provide strong but comfortable restraint and submission without pain. Specifications: durable, hygienic Silicone. Sturdy, yet stretchy for a snug, perfect fit. Metal free design for no bruising or snagging. Can be worn on wrists or ankles. Hypoallergenic material, phthalate free, body safe. Total length 6.4 inches. Proudly, made in America.
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Bondage Rope Japanese Style Purple. Play rough to your hearts content with a full 32 feet (10 meters) of soft cotton bondage rope that won't rub or chafe the skin. The super long length gives you lots of freedom to do what you will, you can bind up the wrists or ankles before attaching the rope to a headboard, or you can create your own bondage designs. This Japanese style treat is a must have for any playful couple. Tie one on just got a little better. Enjoy the feel of this cotton rope that will not chafe or irritate your skin. Knot instruction brochure included. Dimensions 32 feet long. Approximately 3/8 of an inch in diameter.
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Sinful Soft Silicone Ball Gag is made of smooth, body safe silicone and fits effortlessly into the mouth, providing a comfortable bite. An attractive embossed vinyl strap with neoprene lining provides durability and comfort for extended play sessions. Product dimensions 2 inches by 26.3 inches by 2 inches. Adjustable buckle closure. One size fits most. Product materials Vinyl, Silicone.
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Sinful Pink Paddle. Sinful has been the name in affordable playful kink. Now, Sinful just made sexy a little bit sexier! NS Novelties is excited to introduce Sinful: Pink. Everyone's favorite collection is now available in a stunning midnight black finish while continuing to deliver the quality you expect. Black, nickel free anodized hardware, aesthetically striking embossed vinyl, and lined in soft yet durable liquid play friendly neoprene.
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Sinful Black Paddle. Sinful has been the name in affordable playful kink. Now, Sinful just made sexy a little bit sexier! NS Novelties is excited to introduce Sinful: Black. Everyone's favorite collection is now available in a stunning midnight black finish while continuing to deliver the quality you expect. Black, nickel free anodized hardware, aesthetically striking embossed vinyl, and lined in soft yet durable liquid play friendly neoprene.
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Sinful Whip Pink. Sinful has been the name in affordable playful kink in pink. Now, Sinful just made sexy a little bit sexier! NS Novelties is excited to introduce Sinful: Black. Everyone's favorite collection is now available in a stunning midnight black finish while continuing to deliver the quality you expect. Pink, nickel-free anodized hardware, aesthetically striking embossed vinyl, and lined in soft yet durable liquid-play friendly neoprene. Product materials Vinyl, Leather.
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You and Me Blindfold from Creative Conceptions. One size fits most.
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Put your lover on lock down with the Hardcore Silicone Cock Blocker! Fasten the lock, hide the key, and make sure your partner keeps his cock where it belongs! This high end chastity cage is made from body safe, phthalate free Elite Silicone and is designed for comfortable long term wear. The chastity device is lightweight, flexible, and breathable, but once the lock is applied, your subject can not get hard no matter how aroused they are! The Hardcore Silicone Cock Blocker features a sturdy stainless steel adjustable ring that wraps around your subjects entire package, leaving his shaft locked inside the breathable silicone sleeve. With unparalleled comfort, this ventilated silicone chastity cage is the ultimate chastity device for first timers and serious fetish enthusiasts alike. Enjoy the thrill of locking your lover up, or relinquish control and hand over the keys! The silicone cage is easy to wash, body safe, and super hygienic. The vent holes allow you to clean your subjects package while they still wear the cage, and the ring is made from high grade stainless steel. The silicone sleeve has a small pee hole to assist urination, and the entire device can be worn under clothing for amazing one of a kind thrills! To install the silicone sleeve onto the metal ring, make sure the metal ring opening is facing upwards and slide both pairs of silicone loops onto each side of the ring. Once you have looped the silicone sleeve onto the steel ring, choose one of the 3 holes and install one of the locks. sample size Moist Lubricant, Pipedream Toy Cleaner included, Silicone, Phthalates Free. Materials sleeve Silicone, ring Stainless Steel. Length 3.75 inches.
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Fantasy C-Ringz Extreme Silicone Cock Blocker Black Male Chasity. Put your lover on lockdown with the Extreme Silicone Cock Blocker! Fasten the lock, hide the key, and make sure your partner keeps his cock where it belongs! This high end chastity cage is made from our body safe, phthalate free Elite Silicone and is designed for comfortable long term wear. The chastity device is lightweight, flexible, and breathable, but once the lock is applied, your subject can not get hard no matter how aroused they are! The Extreme Silicone Cock Blocker features a sturdy stainless steel adjustable ring that wraps around your subjects entire package, leaving his shaft locked inside the breathable silicone sleeve. With unparalleled comfort, this ventilated silicone chastity cage is the ultimate chastity device for first timers and serious fetish enthusiasts alike. Enjoy the thrill of locking your lover up, or relinquish control and hand over the keys! The silicone cage is easy to wash, body safe, and super hygienic. The vent holes allow you to clean your subjects package while they still wear the cage, and the ring is made from high grade stainless steel. The silicone sleeve has a small pee hole to assist urination, and the entire device can be worn under clothing for amazing one of a kind thrills! To install the silicone sleeve onto the metal ring, make sure the metal rings opening is facing upwards and slide both pairs of silicone loops onto each side of the ring. Once you have looped the silicone sleeve onto the steel ring, choose one of the 3 holes and install one of the locks. Features sample size Moist Lubricant, Pipedream Toy Cleaner. Silicone, Phthalates Free. Materials sleeve Silicone, cock rings Stainless Steel.
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Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition Masquerade Mask & Ball Gag Black. Teach your lover the meaning of submission in no time with this breathable Masquerade Mask & Ball Gag. Unlike ordinary ball gags, this gag features air holes for easy breathing, making it perfect for beginners and fun for everyone. The elastic headband stretches to fit most sizes while the gag can be cleaned easily with toy cleaner and warm water. One size fits most. With this firm, breathable ball gag stuck in your subject's mouth, they won't be able to say a word, what happens next is up to you!
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Fetish Fantasy Series Limited Edition Wartenberg Wheel. Tickle, tease and please your lover with this medical-grade Wartenberg Wheel. Named after the famous neurologist Dr. Robert Wartenberg, this stainless steel pinwheel delivers a tingly sensation as the prickly pins roll across the skin. Combined with a blindfold and restraint, the heightened sensory experience will leave you breathless. The sharp tips of the wheel gently pressed against my neck, while his hands fondled my breasts and his tongue tickled both ear lobes. He ran the prickly wheel across the slope of my shoulder, sending chills down my spine and all over my body. Unisex. Materials: Metal, ABS Plastic. Item Length 6.25 inches. Bulk Weight 1.00 ounce. Package Depth 1 inch. Package Width 3 inches. Package Height6.5 inches. Packaged Weight 1.70 ounces. Country of origin China. Pipedream Products Catalog featured in 2012 Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition page 15.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Limited Edition Breathable Ball Gag Black. Take control of your fantasies tonight with the Fetish Fantasy Breathable Ball Gag. Designed for comfort, the firm, non-toxic rubber ball has breathing holes for your willing submissive. The high quality, leather strap measures 10 inches in length. Simply adjust the buckle for the perfect fit. Ball Measurements Diameter 1.6 inches / 4cm, Length 27.75 inches, Width 1.75 inches, Height 2.25 inches. Bulk Weight1.70 ounces. Package Depth 2 inches. Package Width 3 inches. Package Height 5.5 inches. Packaged Weight 2.60 ounces. One size fits most. When using a ball gag for the first time, check every 15 minutes to see if jaw is sore. Injury may occur if left on for extended periods of time. Always clean before and after use. Unisex. Materials: Gag ABS Plastic, Strap Nylon, Hardware Metal. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 3926909987. Pipedream Products Catalog featured in2012 Fetish Fantasy Limited Edition page 9.
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Fetish Fantasy Gold Metal Cuffs Gold. For fetish couples who demand the very best, we proudly present Fetish Fantasy Gold, the exquisite new collection of premium fetish must-haves developed for fashion forward couples. Your fantasy will become a reality with these luxurious Gold Handcuffs. These anodized metal cuffs are perfect for beginners, yet strong enough to satisfy even the most advanced fetish aficionados. The lock features a quick release button in case you lose the keys, and their sturdy design is made to play hard and ensures your lover will not escape anytime soon. Item weight 6.25 ounces. Shipping information: Package Depth 1 inch, Width 3 inches, Height 5.5 inches. Package Type Box. Materials Metal. Country of origin China. Pipedream Products Catalog featured in 2014 Fetish Fantasy Gold, page 7.
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Fetish Fantasy Silk Rope Love Cuffs Black now you can enjoy the ancient art of Japanese bondage without having to be an expert! These Silk Rope Love Cuffs make rope-style bondage play fun and easy for beginners. Just slide the plastic cinch tight around your subject and you will quickly know who is in charge! The soft, silky ropes feel great against your skin, and the plastic cinch adjusts to make sure your subject will not escape. The cuffs are perfect for ankles or wrists and can be used alone or with other Fetish Fantasy Series restraints. Experience the thrill of bondage and explore your deepest fetish fantasies! Features and Functions Unisex Bondage Sex Toys. Fetish Fantasy Series Silk Rope Love Cuffs is a registered trademark of Pipedream Products. Package Depth 8 inches. Package Width 2 inches. Package Height 8.25 inches. Packaged Weight 6.00 ounces. Package Type Box. Country of Origin China. New package.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Zipper Face Hood Black. Keep your subject silent and obedient with this Zipper Face hood. This lightweight hood is made from high quality polyester spandex designed to fit most sizes and allows easy breathing. The eyes and mouth zippers gives you control over what your subject can see or taste. Zip the eyes and mouth shut, turn out the lights, and turn on the fun! Unisex. One size fits most. Materials Plastic, PVC, Metal, Polyester/Spandex, Nylon. Product dimensions: Height 7.75 inches, Length 1.25 inches, Width 4.75 inches. Packaged weight 3.90 ounces. Item Package type Box. Country of origin China.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Designer Flogger is beautifully crafted. Fancy Flogger is perfect for beginners and BSDM enthusiasts alike. Made from super-soft suede, this flogger has a textured handle to ensure an easy grip. With one crack of the whips tails, your lover will definitely know who is in charge! Colors may vary. Package Depth 1 inch. Package Width 1.5 inches. Package Height 16.5 inches. Packaged Weight 2.25 ounces. Country of originChina. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 3926909987. Fetish Fantasy Designer Flogger is featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog page 91.
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Neon Luv Touch Neon Furry Cuffs Pink. Lock up your lover and explore your fetish fantasies with these Neon Furry Cuffs. Covered with velvety soft faux fur, these heavy duty cuffs keep your lover comfortably constrained and looking and feeling sexy. The locking mechanism has a quick release button in case you lose the key, and their sturdy design ensures they are made to play hard. You will both love the sensuous feel of the soft fur as it teases, tickles and titillates! Materials: metal, faux fur.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Metal Handcuffs give your lover a surprise when you bring out these hefty metal handcuffs. Give the yourself the power of dominance and see how your lover will respond - anticipation is everything! Have some fun tonight! Package Depth 1.25 inches. Package Width 4.25 inches. Package Height 5.25 inches. Packaged Weight 4.25 ounces. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 9326909889. Fetish Fantasy Metal Handcuffs are featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog, page 37.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Beginner's Metal Cuffs use of restraint has always been a sexual stimulant, and with theses Beginner's Metal Cuffs, fantasy becomes reality! These metal cuffs are perfect for beginners and strong enough for any level of user. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose the key, and their sturdy design ensures they're made to play hard. 2 release keys included. Package Depth 0.75 inch. Package Width4.5 inches. Package Height 4.25 inches. Packaged Weight 3.25 ounces. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 9326909889. Fetish Fantasy Beginner's Metal Cuffs are featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog page 36. New image added February 24, 2013.
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Fetish Fantasy Rubber Paddle Black one crack of this Fantasy Rubber Paddle and your lover will know who is in charge! This bendable rubber paddle is soft enough for beginners to enjoy but stiff enough to still provide a firm whack. It hurts so good! Features and Functions: Flexible, Unisex bondage sex toy. Material PVC. Rubber paddle measures 11 inches long by 2.25 inches wide. Paddle weighs 5 ounces. Item Package Type Poly Bag Header Card. Fetish Fantasy Rubber Paddle Red is a registered trademark for Pipedream Products. Country of Origin China.
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Show your lover who's boss with the Fetish Fantasy First-Time Flogger. One smack of the cat o' nine tails tresses and your lover will know who's in charge! 20" (51.4cm)
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Fetish Fantasy Series Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails Whip is black 18 inches cat is sure to make your submissive meee-OW! The wood bead handle has a handy strap and the tresses are an easy-to-use eight inches long. The strap and tresses are made of easy-to-clean, soft-backed vinyl whose tips provide just the right amount of sting. A welcomed addition to any toy bag! Package Depth 1 inch. Package Width 1.25 inches. Package Height 15.5 inches. Packaged Weight2.25 ounces. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 3926909987. Fetish Fantasy Beaded Cat-O-Nine Tails Whip is featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog page 91. New image.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Pleasure Tape lets you put your lover in a sticky situation with this non-sticky bondage tape. This shiny PVC tape only sticks to itself, so it does not pull hair or leave any sticky residue. It's perfect for the novice and the fetish aficionado alike. Pleasure Tape can be used to bind, gag, blindfold, or dress the object of your affection. It is easy to use and visually stunning. Wrap your lover up tonight. It's bound to please you both! Approximately 2 inches wide by 35 feet in length. Bondage tape is made using phthalate free, non-toxic materials Vinyl. Country of origin Taiwan. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 3926909987. Fetish Fantasy Series Pleasure Tape is featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog, page 34. Package dimensions: Depth 2.25 inches, Width 7.00 inches, Height 9.00 inches. Packaged weight 8.00 ounces. Package type Box.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Anodized Cuffs come in 4 colors: pink, purple, red and black. Colors may vary. Each sold separately. The use of restraint has always been a sexual stimulant, and with theses Anodized Metal Cuffs, fantasy becomes reality! These anodized metal cuffs are perfect for beginners and strong enough for any level of user. The locking mechanism has a quick-release button in case you lose the key, and their sturdy design ensures they're made to play hard. Release keys included. Features and Functions Unisex. Material Metal. Package Depth 0.75 inch. Package Width 7.5 inches. Package Height 9.5 inches. Packaged Weight 8.25 ounces. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 7323990000. Fetish Fantasy Anodized Cuffs are featured in 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog page 35.
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Fetish Fantasy Series Metal Handcuffs give your lover a surprise when you bring out these hefty metal handcuffs. Give yourself the power of dominance and see how your lover will respond - anticipation is everything! Have some fun tonight! Package Depth 1.25 inches. Package Width 4.25 inches. Package Height 5.25 inches. Packaged Weight 4.25 ounces. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 9326909889. Fetish Fantasy Metal Handcuffs are featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog, page 37. New package. Colors may vary.
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Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag fetish to the next level. When wide-open is not wide enough, the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag will get the job done! This extreme gag consists of a steel ring with four curved metal legs attached to the ring. The gag and legs prevent the mouth from closing, leaving your subject's mouth wide open for whatever you wish to put in it. The diameter of the ring measures 1.5 inches and the gag connects to a leather strap that buckles in the back and keeps the gag firmly in place. One size fits most. Materials Steel, Faux Leather. Package Depth 2.25 inches. Package Width 4.5 inches. Package Height 8 inches. Packaged Weight 4.25 ounces. Package Type Box. Country of origin China. Harmonized Tariff Schedule HTS Code 3926909987. Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is featured in Pipedream Products 2011 Fetish Fantasy Catalog, page 6.

Are You Into Bondage, Fetish, & Kink Or Are You Vanilla?

Kink, bondage, and fetishes are some of the little talked about areas of erotic play and sexual exploration. While many people keep their more unique desires in the closet, there is an equal number that embraces their differences and engages of full steam erotic passions that will make even Ron Jeremy blush.  

No matter how tame your sex life may be, you can add a bit of kink or bondage to your bedroom play. If you are not sure how to get started, keep on reading and I guarantee you will want to be a BDSM sex slave by the end of this post!

Kink vs Fetish – All You Need To Know

To most people, the words kink and fetish equate to the same thing. While a fetish can be kinky, and some kink also qualifies as a fetish, they are very much, different things. If you are still confused, don’t worry, I am here to help you understand the difference between fetish and kink and how it affects a person’s sex life.

Any type of erotic desires that differ from mainstream ideals such as gay fetish kink or bondage is often called fetishes or kink. The main differences between the two are much more clear though they may overlap at times.

A fetish is always erotic, in other words, it is something required that allows a person to attain sexual gratification. Some of the best bondage toys on the market are created with people that have certain fetishes. The object or act of a fetish is not always sexual in nature, but it gives sexual gratification to the person who has the fetish. For example, some people have foot fetishes, or latex fetishes, or even shoe fetishes.

A kink, on the other hand, is something that causes arousal that is not in line with any sexual norms. What is normal is subjective, but overall a kink is something that gives a person pleasure but is not required for sexual gratification. A simple example of a kink is cock and ball bondage. While inherently pleasurable, it is not a normal sexual activity and its use is also not required to trigger an orgasm.

What Does BDSM Mean?

BDSM brings to mind Fifty Shades of Grey, Sasha grey BDSM or Rihanna waxing about girl on girl bondage in one of her hit songs. While the made for the public image of BDSM such as shown in Fifty Shades of Grey has opened up this erotic genre to the masses, plenty of people really don’t understand what it is. I’m here to help. BDSM stands for Bondage /- Discipline /-Dominance /- Submission /- Sadism /- Masochism. That is a mouthful but it covers a wide range of different tastes and sexual activities.

Before you start thinking about where to buy bondage gear, it is important to understand that BDSM is more than just being tied up. There a lot of role-playing involved on top of submission, discipline, and dominance and sadomasochism. Also, just because someone likes to be tied to the bed on occasion doesn’t mean they are actively practicing BDSM.

There are a lot of ways to combine power, control, pain, and sex in a way that is not only healthy but extremely pleasurable. While you are looking into where to buy bondage rope to use with your partner, remember that communication and consent are the main points needed for a sexually gratifying BDSM experience.

Using Handcuffs & Ropes For Erotic Pleasure

There is something extra sexy about sex in handcuffs that make men and women alike cream in anticipation. Tying up your sex partner in ropes is decidedly BDSM, whereas using a pair of handcuffs during your erotic adventures can offer more sexual stimulation without being extreme. BDSM is great for those who enjoy control, pain, and submission, but what about those of us who just want to spice things up a little bit without taking it all the way?

That’s where handcuffs and sex become the perfect middle ground for couples or even casual partners to explore their sexual fantasies. Grab a pair of leather sex handcuffs and tie your partner the shower or the bed, or you can even handcuff their hands to their ankles as you bend them over a chair. There are so many options to choose from when you add a little bit of restraining play to your erotic exploits.

Understanding Rope Bondage for Beginners

If you are just getting into the world of restraint or full-on BDSM, then a short intro to rope bondage may be helpful. Before you start, it is important to pick up the best bondage gear available for your skill level to ensure that your sexual experience is pleasurable, and there is a lower chance of skin abrasions.

When my partner and I decided to experiment with rope play, we decided to buy bondage gear online instead of going into a store in person. This was mainly because I was a bit embarrassed and could not imagine asking the clerk what the best rope for bondage was without turning a bright shade of red.

We ended up buying a sex position pillow along with a bondage set online from Sex Supply Shop. When it came, I knew our fantasy fetish was going to turn out amazing. I suggest starting off with a few simple knots paired with gentle stimulation and erotic play. This allowed my partner and me to ease into restraint in a way that wasn’t scary or overwhelming. Safewords and clear communication are also important. This is something I learned the hard way and ended up with rope burns during our first bondage sex session.

Why Do People Like BDSM?

BDSM attracts different people for different reasons. Of course, if you are like me, any reason to use a nipple twist during sex is a good reason. On a more serious note, a lot of people like to experiment with control and submission. A person who takes on the role of a submissive may find pleasure in wearing restraint straps and giving over their body to the whims of their dom. Even though using a safe word will end the session, leaving your pleasure to the hands of another can be extremely titillating

Putting in a pair of restraint straps and giving up control is scary, but in a way that triggers your erotic side. I guess you can compare it to watching a horror film, it is scary, but entertaining at the same time. BDSM is the same, you are living out a fantasy by wearing a bdsm day collar and becoming a sex slave. It is also a way to escape from the real world and the responsibilities that come with it. The only thing you have to think about us cumming and pleasuring your dom according to their wishes.

Being a Dom is another side of BDSM that can attract people. Having total control and engaging in rough sex bdsm with a willing partner can feel very empowering. Knowing you have sexual power and total control over another person’s body and their pleasure can be very exciting.

Creative Sex Positions With Handcuffs for Couples

If you are not quite ready to dive in headfirst into BDSM, you can always get your erotic restraint fix with a pair of sex hand cuffs. Before I ever thought of being tied up and strapped to a fucking machine while being spanked by my Dom, I used handcuffs for sex with my partner.

When you think about sex hand cuffs, you probably think about pink fuzzy hand cuffs that are more for looks than for use. While there are a lot of gag cuffs on the market, sexy hand cuffs that offer minimal restraint are a great way to spice up your bedroom play. Some people simply don’t like being fully restrained, but binding their hands is close enough to offer a little bit of kink and a whole lot of sexual satisfaction.

If you have never used handcuffs during sex, then you are in for a wonderful surprise. Handcuffs are sexy because they give control at the same time it’s taken away. Not sure how to use them for sex? Try some of my favorite positions:

The Kinky Missionary – This is a classic. I have an iron bed that has slats. My partner likes to take our sex toys handcuffs and secure my wrist to the headboard while I am laying on my back. This gives him the control to pleasure me as much or as little as he wants without me being able to move out of that position. Because my legs are free, I can still straddle and pump with each of his strokes for heightened orgasms during our erotic restraint play.

Bondage Queening – Men love restraint too, at least my man does. Sex with handcuffs with him in restraint is done in the same position. I put him on the bed and cuff his hands to the headboard. Instead of him teasing or pleasing me, I’ll sit on his face while erotically stimulating his cock. Well, I guess he is pleasing me, but on my terms. This is a great way to take back control of the bedroom and make him beg for release.

Hands Behind the Ankles – This position is easiest for me when we use leather hand cuffs. I lay down on my belly and then he slips in between my legs. I'll lift my ankles up and hold them in my hands as he places sex toy handcuffs around my wrist. This opens up my g-spot and also creates a very sub/dom position that is stimulating for both of us.

What Is The Difference Between Fetish and Fantasy?

So, now that you know a bit about BDSM, you can start thinking about the best rope for bondage to start your erotic adventures. Let’s move into a more vanilla side of erotic bedroom play, fantasy. The definition of fantasy is something that you imagine and want to act out with your partner or alone. A fetish, on the other hand, is an object or idea that you focus on or need to enjoy sexual pleasure.

Erotic fantasy is usually something that you think about while pleasuring yourself or having sex with your partner. There is a whole range of fantasies, some you may actually bring to life, while others may sit in the dark recesses of your dirty mind.

For example, my partner bought me some fetish fantasy lingerie that was crotchless to wear under my formal dress. It was his fantasy to bend me over wearing just such a garment in a dark corner of a party. We did just that and let’s just say his bucket list of sexual fantasies is now 2 items smaller. One of my fantasies that will never happen is to be tied up in hand cuffs by 3 well-hung men, tortured with a feather tickler, and then satiated by all three....at once....hard. Of course, it’s a fantasy that will stay in my dirty mind.

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