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When the topic of masturbation comes up, generally people think of men getting handjobs or using Tenga Cups to get their rocks off. While this is certainly true, it might surprise you to know that women masturbate and self-pleasure as much or even more than men! Over the last decade, the subject of female self-pleasure is no longer taboo, and in fact, there are thousands of sex toys for lesbians, single women, and hetero couples that go beyond a simple multi-speed bullet vibrator.
Over the last decade, we have seen a lot of body positivity movements and the importance of self-care has really been pushed to the forefront. I, for one, have always been a supporter of taking time for yourself to ensure that your mental health is taken care of, but sexual health is equally important. The world of erotic entertainment is very much tied up in self-care, and with a diverse range of low-cost sex toys on the market, taking care of yourself has never been easier. For women who want to explore their sensual side, a sex toy starter kit is a great place to start.
According to social media, self-care means curling up with a good book, reading inspirational quotes, and luxuriating in a costly face mask. While these are great ways to unwind, an orgasm is a safe and healthy way to release stress and have fun at the same time. Studies show that oxytocin, the anti-stress hormone is released to the brain every time you use your vibrator kit to trigger an orgasm. At the end of the day, I personally look forward to pulling out that small sexy package and erasing my day of stress and strain.
The real question is why wouldn’t you want to add the best oral sex toy for women to your nightly exploits? Let me tell you, erotic toys are for everyone and any time. Lesbians use sex toys, couples use sex toys, and even single women use sex toys to explore their sensual side in a variety of ways.
Women’s erotic sex toys allow us to get that shiver of pleasure to boost our mood anytime we want. I like knowing that I can use my power bullet vibrator or vac-u-lock dildo to fill my nights with passion and pleasure without the need of a partner. At the same time, the best double ended dildo on the market is fun with a partner or used creatively for double penetration. Erotic toys are the perfect way to get to know your body and develop an understanding of what you like in the bedroom. The most important relations you will ever have is the one you create with yourself.
Sex toys are NOT made equally and those with a higher price tag are not always going to be the ones that give the most pleasure. Every woman’s body is different, as are things that excite our senses. The best strap ons for lesbians will appeal to women who like masculine play while a simple rabbit-style vibrator may be the go-to toy for a woman who likes to be pleasured by her partner.
Finding the right toy starts with learning the best places to buy vibrators. A quality erotic toy shop will offer a wide range of female sex toys to choose from. If you are buying online, make sure to check descriptions to get a better understanding of how the toy works. If possible, consider visiting a store in person to test out different toys and speak with an associate that can explain the difference between the various toys on the market. There are waterproof sex toys, sonic wave clitoral stimulators, oral sex stimulators, remote control sex toys, g-spot stimulators, bondage games and more. Whatever your dirty mind can conjure up, there is a female sex toy to bring that fantasy to life.
Think about what turns you on, what areas of your body you like to feel stimulated and then find a toy to fill those needs. Personally, I like a little bit of pain to heighten my pleasure, and some of the best nipple clamps I have found offer gentle stimulation that can be paired with any vibrating vagina sex toy in my erotic arsenal.
If you are in the market for the best vibrating panties you can wear under your clothes I can help. Or, if you were under the misconception that pocket vibrators and huge dildos were best female arousal products available, I can certainly open your eyes to a world of erotic options for women.
Vibrators started out when doctors in the late 1700’s prescribed water and steam-powered sex machines as a cure for female insomnia, anger, and hysteria. I am sure that plenty of women were happy to get a cure for their loneliness while their men were away. But can you imagine women back then being so bold as to ask where to buy a fucking machine from their at-home visiting doctor?
Thankfully, once electricity rolled around in the 1800s, electric-powered vibes became all the rage. They were even advertised in mainstream magazines where women could purchase them for themselves at their leisure. Of course, this little trip down into history is just to drive home the point that female self-pleasure is healthy, normal, and has been around for a long time. There are many ways to engage the senses and stimulate the erogenous zones such as with the breast stimulator that mimics the sensation of gentle suckling which I personally enjoy. Or, if you need a bit of help some of the best female arousal gel on the market will help set your senses tingling. Like I said before, there is no one size fits all when it comes to women’s sex toys, but there are some that are made with our bodies in mind such as:
I love to spend some ‘me time’ alone with my box of toys because it not only allows me to connect with my inner sex kitten, but it has medicinal benefits. Science shows that women who self-pleasure regularly have better sleep, less stress, and even lower levels of menstrual pain. All of that is a big plus in my book, especially if I get to feel good while taking my erotic medication – literally.
It’s pretty easy to do a simple Google Search for vibrating panties for sale or the best mini vibrator. Knowing what to purchase when you get pages worth of results in another story. I mentioned that buying sex toys for women has a lot to do with your personal preferences, and choosing what’s best for you has nothing to do with choosing what’s popular. Think about your needs and how you plan to use your erotic toys. Do you plan to use a clit pump cylinder to make your nether regions attractive for your partner or are you more interested in the most popular dildo size to enjoy a bit of solo entertainment? Perhaps you and your partner are interested in experimenting with anal play and want to know the best anal lube for women to ease discomfort.
Once you have a clear idea about your goals, then it is time to shop for toys! Picking out a material that you like feeling on your skin and in your body is essential. There are toys that are coated in silicone as well as those who use synthetic skin. Some women’s sex toys even come in more rigid materials like glass, wood, metal, and leather. Women’s sex toys also are made in a wide variety of price points. Just because something is expensive doesn’t mean it will work well for you, just like affordable sex toys don’t always mean poor quality. You might be surprised to know that one of the best strap-on harness I have ever tried is also budget-friendly. After reading countless strapless strap on reviews I chose one of my first sex toys of this type. It cost me a pretty penny.....and I hated it! After doing a little more research I found out that a lower cost harness and vac-u-dong would give me the sensations I craved without the features I didn’t like on the more costly model. Always think about your preferences, likes, and dislikes when choosing a breast cup, realistic dildo, mini-vibrator or any other erotic toy.
If you are new to the world of erotic toys or if you have been using them for a while, sanitation and maintenance are equally important. Most people talk about the strongest motors or the best anal numbing creams, but I want to touch on sex toy care.
Cleaning your erotic toys before and after each use will keep them in top condition as well as prevent nasty infections. Sex toys can accumulate germs just like any other surface in your home, but the main difference is that these items are constantly exposed to your internal structures. Most erotic toys will come with cleaning instructions, but as a rule, always clean every toy with antibacterial soap and water.
There are special liquid cleaners available specifically for erotic toys that can help kill any germs, bacteria, or nasty critters left behind. Some sex toys can even be boiled or microwaved to eliminate pathogens. If you plan to share your erotic toys, make sure to use them with a condom to prevent transmission of STD’s or other bacterial infections.
Just like with any other product, it is important to buy your erotic toys from a reputable retailer. Avoid shops that don’t have reviews or those that are flooded with low ratings. Purchase authentic products made from quality materials regardless of the price. Erotic toys do go inside of your body so it is critical to only use sex toys made with body-safe materials.
Most of all have fun, I have never been afraid to stick something in my mouth, or butt, or on my nipples in the name of sensual adventure. Everyone, especially women, deserves to have an orgasmic sex life either alone or with a partner. I hope you have enjoyed this blog post that covers women’s erotic sex toys. For more information about erotic toy safety, do check out Dangerous Lilly. For the best prices on erotic toys for women, adult toys, free shipping, and more be sure to check out our online sex shop today!
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