Butt Plugs

What You Need To Know About Adding A Butt Plug To Your Bedroom Escapades

Have you and your partner decided to engage in anal play?  Are you looking to add another huge butt plug to your erotic sex toy collection? Maybe you are new to the world of erotic toys and anal stimulation and are curious about the world’s most comfortable butt plug. Whatever your reasons for searching about this topic, I am glad that you found my post.

When I first started using sex toys for erotic play, there wasn’t much information out there. The most helpful comments and suggestions that I came across was from a weird corner in Reddit. A quick search of the term Reddit butt plug will bring up the thread I am talking about *blushes*.

While this was enough basic information to get started, my anal education was seriously lacking. I would have loved to have someone tell me the importance of lube or how to use a butt plug before I went shopping. Anyway, to save you the hard work and pain of finding out things the hard way, I have some helpful tips to help you with your erotic anal butt plug journey.

When I first started using sex toys for erotic play, there wasn’t much information out there. The most helpful comments and suggestions that I came across was from a weird corner in Reddit. A quick search of the term Reddit butt plug will bring up the thread I am talking about *blushes*.

While this was enough basic information to get started, my anal education was seriously lacking. I would have loved to have someone tell me the importance of lube or how to use a butt plug before I went shopping. Anyway, to save you the hard work and pain of finding out things the hard way, I have some helpful tips to help you with your erotic anal butt plug journey.

What is a Butt Plug?

A butt plug is pretty much exactly what it sounds like. It is an erotic sex toy that is used to anal stimulation. There are many different sizes, shapes, and textures of butt plugs available to meet the carnal needs of pretty much any type of kink. My favorite is a glass butt plug which I like to use for anal stimulation and temperature play in the bedroom.

Those who are used to anal play may use a large butt plug as part of their foreplay or even during a sex session. Pairing a textured butt plug with penetration will give the exciting sensation of being filled in both holes. Of course, but plugs are for men and women alike to act out their wildest fantasies.

There is more to a butt plug than the sensation. Sometimes, the most erotic part of lovemaking is the visual and sensual foreplay. I love to insert a jewel butt plug paired with crotchless panties and a halter as a way to drive my partner wild with erotic visuals. To take your foreplay up a notch, you can even let your partner lick and stick the butt plug before you guys get down and dirty between the sheets.

How Do You Use a Butt Plug?

The best butt plug is not one that costs the most money or even one that offers the most features. A good butt plug is one that you use properly and one that gives you the right amount of stimulation to make your orgasms pop....literally.  

Before diving into anal play, it is important to understand exactly how to use a butt plug properly. Not only will proper use to ensure that you have a pleasurable experience, but it will also prevent tearing or other anal damage. Whether you are going to be using a butt plug on your own, or with a partner, the proper technique will make all the difference.

Learning how to insert a butt plug properly is much easier than you may think. Let me tell you how I learned and maybe it can help you. It is very important to use liberal amounts of lubrication and also to relax during insertion. The anus doesn’t get wet like a pussy or the head of a clit, so you have to use external moisture to facilitate insertion.

If you will be inserting the butt plug yourself, either lay down on the bed or squat with your legs apart. Relax your body and take slower breaths to help loosen the muscle of the sphincter. Lubricate your butt plug well, and slowly insert the plug a little bit at a time until the whole unit is in. If you feel pain, stop and start over, or use more lube.

What a First Time Butt Plug User Needs To Know

Anal play is a great way to add excitement to the bedroom or to add a twist to your already kinky erotic exploits. Anal play is not limited to women, in fact, one of the best erotic toy to encourage stronger ejaculations are the male butt plug. A well-shaped butt plug for men will massage the prostate without causing discomfort. This can make orgasms much stronger while taking sensual pleasure to the next level.

When looking for the best butt plug for men, think about the end-user. For example, my partner is only a casual user of anal sex toys so his prostate massagers and butt plugs tend to be smaller. He also prefers those that have a softer exterior such as those made from silicone. Of course, like I said before, it is very important to use plenty of lube no matter what type or level of butt plug user you may be.

For veteran butt plug users, you may be interested in those that have vibrations, a clamp, or even some made out of firmer materials. There are even butt plugs that expand like a balloon via a pumping device. Of course, first users of anal sex toys and butt plugs may want to invest in a trainer kit. These kits have graduating sizes of butt plugs starting off small and getting larger as you get used to the sensation

The Importance of Proper Butt Plug Training

If you are getting excited about using a butt plug, then my work is just about done. I expect some flowers or at least a naughty picture when you realize just how strong your orgasms will be with a butt plug. My partner and I started off with a few anal beads and a butt plug kit, now, we use our vibrating butt plug just about every time we have sex.

Before you run out to the Sec Supply Shop to buy a locking butt plug or a vibrating prostate massager, I want to take a moment to explain the importance of proper butt plug training. The anus can offer a wide range of erotic sensations and pleasure that will keep you and your partner dripping with cum, but only if you are properly prepared. Unlike a pussy or a mouth, the anus is not a traditional sexual orifice that is set up for hardcore sex.

Of course, with proper training, the anus can be a source of limitless erotic pleasure. Using a butt plug training kit will allow you to slowly train your asshole to accept butt plugs, anal beads, butt plug tails, dildos and more. Starting off small and slowly working your way up to larger objects is the key to maximizing your erotic experience.

Anal play can be a couples activity, or it can be something enjoyed on your own. There are vibrating butt plugs, double-ended dildos that can be used for dual penetration, butt plugs with attached cock rings and more. No matter which type of anal kink you are into, there is a butt plug training kit and advanced sex toys to meet your naughty desires.

How to Use A Butt Plug With Tail

Like I mentioned before, there are hundreds if not thousands of different anal toys on the market to choose from. While a traditional butt plug or a set of anal beads may do the trick, there is nothing wrong with moving out of your traditional comfort zone. Change things up by having your partner wear a butt plug during sex, or even use a curved prostate massager to get them hot and bothered. If you are looking for a little bit more kink, then you might enjoy a butt plug tail.

You may be wondering what the heck I am talking about, and your reaction is the same I had when my partner showed up with a pair of butt plug tails he found on the Sex Supply Shop website. These cute erotic sex toys are butt plugs with an animal like attachment on the handle. They make a great sex toy for role-playing, or for use with S & M games. Butt plug tails are not for beginners or the faint of heart because they tend to go much deeper and are heavier than a regular butt plug.

My favorite anal toy for role-playing in our swingers club is my fox tail butt plug. I usually pair this with a latex catsuit and stilettos. The overall look is as if I am a wholly erotic fox bent on pleasuring everyone in the room. Of course, walking around with a tail butt plug provides hours of titillating sensations that prime my body and my ass for penetration.

Using butt plug tails is not difficult, but it is a little different than your average butt plug. To start, butt plug tails are not really meant for beginners. Your anus has to be able to accommodate a bigger plug and be strong enough to hold the extra weight. They are inserted the same way as a regular but plug, but the main difference is they are intended to be worn much longer than other types of anal sex toys.

Creative Butt Plugs For Couples

Masturbation and self-pleasure have its place, but sometimes you just want a good fuck with a willing partner who is as Horney as you are. Butt plugs are a great way to amp up the erotic fun and turn any roll in the hay into a night of wild, passionate sex. You can start by using sensation play and control with a remote control vibrating butt plug. This gives your sex partner more control over the sensations you feel before, during, and after sex. Can you imagine being tied up on the bed with a pair of nipple clamps and a vibrating butt plug? Hmmm, pleasure overload!

If you are not into taking or giving control, you can also engage in dual pleasure with a cock ring with butt plug. We all know that a cock ring can help prolong an erection while also making orgasms stronger, but pair that with a butt plug and you have the recipe for a perfect erotic storm. Insert the plug for gentle prostate stimulation and tie the ring to keep you hard all night long.

There are several types of a cock ring with butt plug to choose from. You can choose from a simple pegger with a flexible loop, or you can get a remote control vibrating cock ring with butt plug. The vibrations will stroke your p-spot until you are made with passion. Your pelvic thrust will be harder, deeper, and last longer. Your orgasms will literally be out of this world, and so will your partners.