5 Sex Positions to Spice Up Your Relationship – New Moves to Try Tonight

Ready to Try Something New in the Bedroom?

Sometimes all it takes to reignite the spark is a fresh perspective — or a fresh position. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting to explore with a new partner, trying new sex positions is one of the easiest ways to discover new sensations, deepen intimacy, and keep things exciting.

Here are 5 sex positions worth trying tonight — with tips on how to make each one work for you.

1. Reverse Cowgirl

In the Reverse Cowgirl, the receiving partner straddles their partner facing away. This position allows for deep penetration and puts the person on top in full control of the pace, depth, and angle — making it ideal for finding exactly the right spot.

Why try it: The angle of penetration in Reverse Cowgirl stimulates different areas than traditional cowgirl, and the view from both sides is a major bonus.

Pro tip: Add a small vibrator or bullet vibe for clitoral stimulation while in this position for a blended experience.

2. The G-Whiz

In the G-Whiz, one partner sits cross-legged while the other sits on top facing them. The close body contact and upright angle create direct pressure on the G-spot while allowing for deep, intimate eye contact.

Why try it: The G-Whiz is perfect for couples who want to feel deeply connected. The face-to-face position encourages kissing, touching, and emotional closeness during sex.

Pro tip: Rock back and forth rather than bouncing up and down for more consistent G-spot stimulation.

3. Doggy Style

Doggy style is a timeless classic — and for good reason. With one partner on all fours and the other entering from behind, this position allows for deep penetration and direct G-spot stimulation. It also frees up hands for additional clitoral stimulation.

Why try it: Doggy style is one of the most versatile positions — it can be slow and sensual or fast and intense depending on the mood.

Pro tip: Place a pillow under the receiving partner’s hips to adjust the angle and intensify G-spot contact.

4. Spooning

Spooning is the most intimate position on this list. Both partners lie on their sides facing the same direction, with the penetrating partner entering from behind. It’s comfortable, deeply intimate, and perfect for lazy mornings or slow, sensual sessions.

Why try it: The full-body contact and closeness of spooning creates a sense of warmth and safety that makes it ideal for emotional connection as well as physical pleasure.

Pro tip: The penetrating partner’s hands are completely free in this position — use them to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones for a more intense experience.

5. The Chair

In The Chair position, the receiving partner sits on a chair or the edge of a bed with legs spread, while the other partner enters from a standing position. The height difference creates a unique angle for deep penetration and gives both partners a different kind of control.

Why try it: The Chair is great for couples who want to try something different without acrobatics. It’s accessible, comfortable, and surprisingly intimate.

Pro tip: Try this position in front of a mirror for an added visual element that many couples find incredibly arousing.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to be flexible to try these positions?

Not at all. All five positions on this list are accessible for people of varying fitness and flexibility levels. The key is to communicate with your partner and adjust as needed. If something feels uncomfortable, modify it or try something else — there are no rules.

How do I introduce new positions to my partner?

The easiest approach is to bring it up outside of the bedroom in a relaxed, low-pressure conversation. You might say something like, “I read about this position and thought it could be fun to try — what do you think?” Framing it as an adventure you’re both going on rather than a critique of your current sex life makes it much easier to explore together.

Can these positions work for same-sex couples?

Absolutely. All of these positions can be adapted for any couple regardless of gender or anatomy. With the right toys — like strap-ons, dildos, or vibrators — every position on this list is fully accessible and enjoyable for same-sex partners.

Can sex toys enhance these positions?

Yes — significantly. A small bullet vibrator, a couples’ ring, or a remote-controlled toy can add an entirely new dimension to any of these positions. Many couples find that incorporating toys makes it easier to achieve orgasm and adds excitement to familiar routines.

The Bottom Line

You don’t need to reinvent the wheel to have great sex — sometimes a small change in position is all it takes to unlock a completely new experience. Try one of these five positions tonight and see what works for you and your partner.

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