Your Guide To The Best Lesbian Sex Toys & How To Use Them

 Most erotic toy guides or articles about sex toys probably cater to heterosexual pairings. While that’s all good and well, chances are you were looking for the best sex toys for lesbian couples. Sex toys can and will be able to be used by any and all sexual configurations, but when it comes to lesbian and sex toys, sometimes it’s nice to have a plaything that addresses your particular desires.

Thankfully, I understand your woes, after all, I came to write this post because I went through the same thing. I was looking for new anal toys to play with my girl but only found things geared towards men, or towards women who will be sleeping with men. Hey, I am the last person to complain about sexual preferences, but when I want am looking for lesbian anal sex toys, I want to find toys aimed at our needs specifically.

My search for a sex-positive shop that catered to my needs led me to Sex Supply Shop. It’s an online-based erotic toy story that has everything you need for lesbian love, kink, man on man, solo and hetero sex. Back to the topic, however, I am going to get down and dirty about lesbian sex toys, how to use them, and why you need them in your lesbian sexcapades.

Are Lesbian Sex Toys Really That Different?

Anyone can use a vibrator, men, women, toaster....in other words, pretty much all sex toys can be used for any form of couple grouping. When it comes to lesbian seduction however, there are some nuances that specific erotic toys can help encourage. Us lesbians have been getting creative with existing sex toys for ages. I for one would be much happier using a lesbian strapon that is made to fit girl on girl action as opposed to one that is bigger, bulkier, and intended for men.

For the longest, lesbian fingering was the go-to method for sexual pleasure. Although sex games and erotic adventures in the bedroom have evolved to include things like lesbian bondage, fingering remains a staple. Sex toys made for us that take this into account such as finger vibes for lesbians are what really make sex toys specifically for lesbians so attractive.

For example, there is a noticeable difference between butt plugs and pegs used for anal play and the some that would be used for lesbian anal. Yes, a lot of us enjoy penetration, in fact, my girlfriend loves I lube up a giant realistic dildo for our bedroom play. That being said, anal toys for lesbians will generally be smaller and shaped for maximum pleasure as opposed to the largest size.

Does Hot Lesbian StrapOn Sex Excite you?

Are you eagerly scrolling through the internet looking for juicy lesbian strapon sex stories? Sorry, to disappoint you, but I CAN tell you how to create some of your own in real life. My girlfriend and I have loads of experience in the lesbian strapon anal punishment department, and there have been some good toys and some bad, you can learn from our experiences.

Before you run out to buy all the strap on realistic dildos you can find, let me tell you a secret. Not all lesbians use strap-ons, but there are plenty of us who do, and many who don’t. If you like penetration, or if you prefer external stimulation while pleasuring your partner, there are strap on dildos made just for this purpose. Lesbian strap-on dongs come in all sizes, shapes, colors, and materials. Both with and without harnesses as well. My favorite is a double penetration strap on that makes it possible for me and my girl to cum and scream together all night long.  

Make Her Hot With Sensual Lesbian Foreplay

Sex in its most basic form is nothing more than a penis-in-vagina scenario. When it comes to sex with a woman, especially first-time lesbian sex, there is so much more to experience. Women who love women, be they lesbian or bisexual, understand the importance of tantalizing and stimulating the pleasure centers in the brain and on the body.

Some of the best lesbian sex toys are actually not phallocentric but created with the lesbian lover in mind. To have amazing lesbian sex, you need to create an atmosphere for passion. Getting down and dirty with your favorite pocket vibrator is sure to give you a quick orgasm, but the incredibly intense, mutually shared pleasure will be much more fulfilling. One of the best ways to transform your make-out sessions into a night of lesbian bliss is by incorporating erotic accessories into your passion play.

You can use the red vibrator to stimulate her erogenous zones or even use your fingertips to evoke arousal. Feather ticklers are a great way to engage the senses by touching her all over before satiating her arousal.

Remote Control Sex Toys For Lesbians

As a lesbian, I can tell you that often sex is about the long game and not just having a quick orgasm. Although there is plenty of times where a quick finger fuck or some lesbian vibrator sex is called for. A creative way I have found to keep my girlfriend happy is by providing her with sensual stimulation when she least expects it. Yes, flirty looks and smacks on the butt are effective, but nothing is more sensual than sending out with to wear a pair of vibrating panties in public.

Much better than a remote control bullet vibrator that we typically use at home, this daring erotic play brings sex and dominance play to all new heights. The last time we played with our remote sex toys outside of our bedroom, we were at a friend’s party in their home. My girl was wearing this sexy red dress that hugged all her curves in the right way. I had her slip on a pair of vibrating panties under it before we left the house.

I kept the remote with me, and every time she got distracted, or for no reason at all, I would activate the lesbian vibrator. By the time the food was served, she had a small river running down her leg along with a beautiful flush. A quick trip to the bathroom and I had her screaming my name for everyone at the party to hear. 

All About The Lesbian Harness

We love our strap on’s, but oftentimes they are simply uncomfortable. I don’t know how many times I spent a few hours pleasuring my girlfriend in just about every position imaginable. But, the next day I would wake to bruising, chafing and general soreness due to ill-fitting harnesses. I finally got tired of it and decided to search for lesbian strap-on harness made with the female build in mind.

Needless to say, Sex Supply Shop had me covered. I found a large selection of harness to choose from. Leather harnesses tend to work well when we use a lesbian strapon anal dildo. They literally last forever, feel warm when I wear them and tend to fit the mold of my body the more often I use it. These are great for lesbian couples of all sized, my chick is petite, but I am a little more muscular which means that I need to have a solid fit to keep the dildo from slipping when I bend her over.

They also carry cloth harnesses that are soft, adjustable, and attach with Velcro. We use this one when we want to enjoy our double-sided strap on. The easy to adjust straps make it easy to give us each the right amount of thrust and penetration for dual pleasure. If you are like me, chances are you have a few dongs in your erotic toolbox, make sure to pick up a harness that can fit most dildo models and sizes.

Make Your Current Sex Toys Work For You

Everyone wants to have the best lesbian sex they possibly can, but not all of us are interested in buying a completely new set of toys. I love that I can engage in lesbian strapon sex using our well-loved and much-favored dildos that we already own. How is that possible? With a fabric harness of course. These are more like tight boxers that can hold just about any type of dildo you already own.

Another great thing is that lesbian vibrator orgasms can leave you soaking wet, well, they leave me and my girl both dripping, but that’s a lesbian sex story for another day. Fabric harnesses that are like undies can be tossed in the wash with your regular clothes. Easy peasy, cum and clean in a jiffy! Also, if you are into lesbian vibrator bondage like we are, then the fabric option will further add to the allure.

Luscious Lesbian Vibrators That Will Make Her Toes Curl!

I know I have been going on about just how great skin-to-skin is for us lesbians, and while that remains true, let's not get crazy by underestimating the power of batteries and silicone. The best vibrator for girls will leave your lesbian labia shaking and rolling while boning your heart out.  

A vibrator bullet is a classic staple in any woman’s erotic toy box, no matter what her sexual preferences may be. When shopping for a vibrator specifically for us lesbians, I stumbled upon the mother lode. Finger vibrators that are waterproof and fit over the tips allow for a perfect clit stimulating vibe with the maximum amount of precision. When I first brought this little gadget home my girl though that it was some new face cleaning tool, that was until I turned it on and stuck my fingers down her panties.

Instead of wondering where to buy vuse vibe, consider picking up a WeVibes instead. My girlfriend loved the dual penetration feature that allowed us to climax again and again at the same time. I really think it is one of my better investments. Chocolate for valentines? Nah, a wireless bullet vibrator is a much better choice.

Shopping For Lesbian Sex Toys With Your Partner

I have enough stories to make you drip with need and run out to the nearest sex shop to pick up the best vibrating panties on the market. Before you head out, think about what excites you AND what turns your partner on. We all know women can be complicated, heck, I am like that myself, but when it comes to lesbian sex toys its best to be on the same page.

After sharing my vibrating panties stories with your woman, ask her to shop for erotic toys with you. This will give you both a chance to explore the various lesbian sex toy options that are available. It is also a great way to open up about your desires, passions, and wants for the bedroom.

Don’t just stick with one toy either. Pick up a lesbian strap on with a pegger or even an oversized dong if you guys are into penetration. Pussy pumps and nipple clamps are another way to boost your bedtime adventures. Never forget that as lesbians our best sexual weapon is our fingers, and Sex Supply Shop has a wide range of finger vibrators to make your weapon extra titillating.